Hey guys, am sorry I have been out of touch
for a while, life eih! ... But anyway am back!
While I didn’t blog for a while I always tried to update the facebook
page, so if you haven’t checked it out make sure to do so at www.facebook.com/NaturalToto
Anyway for my come back I decided to share
with you one story that I came across recently. It’s a discussion of hair in
the Kenyan setting, why most women prefer weaves, and in particular it follows
a young lady in her quest of hair beauty. The story didn’t actually shock me,
as this is something I have come to know and understand about not only Kenyans,
but lots of girls & women in Africa. Most of us HATE! Our natural hair.
It’s a mindset we have been conditioned and
accustomed to from a young age, a mindset which has been influenced by the
western world and its depiction of beauty and therein in part, lack of our own
depiction of beauty. This mind set where straight hair, permed hair, weaves and
wigs are chosen as the ideal standard of beauty, while our own God given hair
is seen as ugly, nasty, unmanageable, uncontainable and some kind of a sin put
upon our head which we must hide and alter at any given time to seem
presentable! This is a mindset I blame mostly to our own Ignorance.
In the story the lady whose life is
followed can be heard as saying she hates her hair because its kinky, funny
enough her hair is full of chemical still, and it has just a bit of “growth” on
it. But just by the mere sight of her natural hair she is angry, sad, and feels
unworthy or ugly because of it, and has to run back to the salon to get it
“retouched.”
Still in the story, is one of Kenya’s most
prominent her salonists, she confidently and without shame says that Natural
hair is cheap!!! And seems so proud to say of how she goes to far off countries
such as China and India to collect hair, which for some reason only she would
know, is made pure by the fact that it is cut in temples!!! Again I can only
blame such utterances as Ignorance.
It is such a shame to bring children in the
world and give them a mindset that being as they are is not beautiful and they
have to plaster or add other things to their physique to make them beautiful. It’s
such a shame for one to feel so intelligent in saying your natural hair is
cheap (as compared to assumedly dead people hair from far off lands) and that it’s
something done only by people from the rural areas.
I just hope can learn from this video, see
how low we have stooped and go back to our roots! It’s only natural.
What are your sentiments about natural
hair, do you also think its cheap?
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